We feel that you are automatically involved in this issue by witnessing it. You have the power to do something. The negative effects go beyond a single unhealthy relationship and ultimately affect everyone.
Effects on Abusers

An abusive dating relationship can have long-term effects on the abuser. While the abuser may get what he/she wants in the short-term, these consequences may follow:

- Alienating their friends and family
- Losing respect of their peers
- Being alone
- Expulsion from school
- Losing their job
- Having a criminal record (and losing personal freedom)

Abusers create a pattern of behavior for themselves, which puts them at risk for ruining future relationships. The earlier this problem is recognized, the sooner it can be addressed.